Valentine’s Day is a special day to celebrate love. However, it’s important to remember that it’s about all forms of love, and not just romantic love. There are many reasons why all sorts of different types of people dread Valentine’s Day but these are the different things you can do on this special day to keep it interesting.
First Dates and Valentines Day
If you want to go on a first date for Valentine’s day, you might find that this gives the date a whole lot of pressure. But, if you just keep calm and think of it as a regular type of first date, you can have a great time. Make sure that you get reservations ahead of time or pick something that won’t require something reserved because things tend to fill up really fast on Valentine’s Day. This will ensure that you can get in there and make sure you have an awesome date. Don’t feel too much pressure. Hopefully your first V-Day Date will make you blush and squeal, but if it doesn’t, don’t worry, there are others out there for dating.
Now, there’s another type of first date which is OK for Valentine’s day and that’s your first date with someone as a couple. If you have a date on Valentine’s day and you haven’t been dating someone long, you will definitely want to make it a special time. Make sure that you listen to what they say about what they might want for a Valentine’s Day date and you will find that they have a good idea of what they want. It’s up to you to make it happen and to have a good time!
Being Alone on Valentine’s Day
If you’re alone on Valentine’s Day that does not mean you are a failure. Au contraire, it just means you haven’t yet found the right person. Being single on V-Day doesn’t have to be horrible. It can actually be quite fun. First of all you can try to have a good time with other single friends. Give them a party and make the whole evening a blast. If you haven’t had a good time on Valentine’s Day because you’re single, then it’s just because you aren’t taking full advantage of the single life. Sure, being alone on Valentine’s Day can sting but you don’t have to consider yourself a total full failure. Get yourself a party to go to or some bitter friends to hang out with. Better yet, go to a speed dating event to try to find love or lust on V-Day! If you’re alone on Valentine’s Day don’t despair. There’s always next year and you have a lot of amazing friends and family members who love you too!
That’s right, V-Day doesn’t have to be just about romantic love. It can be a day to spread the love across the globe, for everyone in your life and even for people that you don’t even know. If you want to make it extra special, you can volunteer for a charity to help people who really don’t have much and spread that human kind of love on Valentine’s Day.
If You’re In a Long Term Relationship (LTR)
Those in long term relationships, AKA LTRs, have been able to experience a lot of Valentine’s Days together. You can always try to go back to a favorite spot for dinner or have a time at the spot where you met. If you want to make it extra special choose Valentine’s Day as the day to make a special proposal for marriage or perhaps to move in together. It will make every subsequent Valentines Day even more special forever.